It is Important to Have a Best Friend

Some people believe that they had better survive on the Earth themselves instead of making friends. This belief exists since they once got friendship problems worsening their life. For consideration, they have a bastard. Once they experienced this, they might consider it as a traumatic experience. This stereotype influences them to close themselves. They think that being alone is better than having a bastard.  However, as a human being, we need friends to accompany ourselves. Having friendship beautifies our lives. We spend most of our time with friends, even best friends, have jokes together, have fun, hanging out with friends, share each other, and many more. In other words, we always do various things with our best friends, even fulfill each other. Best friends become an important thing in our life in terms of beautifying our lives, giving more fun, and getting more knowledge.  

Best friends mostly support our lives. Usually, we have similar opinions making us understand each other well. Have a look at this circumstance, once I had a best friend named Fatimah. We have different personalities.  Fatimah is a very kind, beautiful, and patient girl. The most different one is she is a patient girl, but I am a selfish girl. Her endurance is proved by her nice behavior. When she gets a problem with other people, she does not attack her rivals badly. Even, she behaves nice. It seems that she does not have any business or problems with them. He is able to control her emotion very well. In contrast, if I experience the same thing as Fatimah, I will clarify and solve the problem as soon as possible, or even get angry. Although we have different personalities, she always understands me well. She suggests me behave well to others, although they hurt me. Moreover, whenever I get angry to her for we have misunderstandings, or she stimulates me to get angry, she never gets angry as I do. She amuses me and advises me to be a better person. Hence, differences in friendship beautify our lives.  

Besides, having best friends gives us more fun. It is shown whenever we are together with our friends we laugh out aloud. This happens since our togetherness with our friends stimulates each of us to create some jokes and share everything we experienced. Have a look at this experience that one of our friends talk about her experience, another friend will comment, judge, or stimulate jokes, the others will laugh out aloud. Moreover, since we spend most of our time outside of our homes, best friends might be the first people knowing our sadness and our feeling. They will not keep silent and stay away when we have a problem. They will help us at least minimize our problems by amusing us and giving suggestion. Here, by giving us fun, it will release pains and problems in our lives.

For those who have best friends, they get more knowledge well by sharing each other. We don’t need to read book or surf in the internet when we need some simple information since we can get it from our best friends. Each of us has different background knowledge and experience affecting our whole lives. For consideration, we get new information about scholarship overseas, job vacancies, other information from our friends. Without searching on the Internet, we get many kinds of information easily and quickly. If we do not have friends, we will not get information quickly, unless we stay online on the Internet and have broad knowledge about variety of websites. In other word, we can say that the more we have friends, the more information and knowledge we get.   So, we will not get stuck on our own vision, yet we can broaden it.

All in all, a best friend is one of the best parts in our lives. They really give at least three benefits in our lives; they beautify our lives, give us more fun, and broaden our knowledge. Simple but meaningful, a best friend makes our lives complete. Hence, for those who already had a best friend please kindly be a real friend since our presence effects our friends. Meanwhile, those who do not, please try to find your real best friends since they are parts of our lives.  

By: NAILAH SA’DIYATUL FITRIAH

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